2016 might have sucked the rottenest of eggs in many ways. Welcoming 2017 with the norovirus rampantly making its way through the family might not have been the best way to see the new year in either. Of course, that was then swiftly followed by optical pit stops made by our old chum conjunctivitis. Sometimes I feel children are mere petri-dishes of bacteria rather than anything else.
We shall overcome.
I’ve been working bloody hard to ensure that we do, actually.
And one way of overcoming adversity that we are faced with in life is by showing it that we will not be beaten down.
What better way than packing your bags and setting off?
Perhaps packing your bags, setting off and having a damn good time filled with adventure, that’s what.
So that’s what I’ve been working on.
You see, for my brother’s funeral, he did not request flowers or donations to be made in his name.
Adventure.
That’s what he wanted for us.
He wanted people to use the money they’d have used at his funeral to put towards creating a memory instead.
Do something different.
Have some fun.
Adventure!
Knowing how I was still raw after the death of our dad and concerned about keeping me afloat once he too had passed, Jimmy decided to set me some challenges to focus on. We spoke often about the things he wanted me to do. High on the list was for me to complete the Three Peaks Challenge which was something he had always wanted to do himself. It was an emotional conversation that I remember clearly.
‘I don’t want to climb mountains,’ I sobbed. ‘I just want to scream.’
‘Then climb a mountain and scream,’ Jimmy replied.
He coached me on planning routes, reading maps and provided me with his tips and knowledge. I made the promise that I would complete the challenge.
‘You need to do more for you, Tania. You need to have some fun.’
I don’t know how much fun he thought I’d have climbing a mountain. I mean, he could have requested I visit the 50 best beaches of the world. But no, he wanted to give me mountains. Having lost 60lbs so far and with my fitness levels higher than they’ve probably ever been, I’m hoping to have a confirmed date for the Three Peaks Challenge soon.
I’ll also be doing the UK’s tallest freefall abseil from the ArcelorMittal Orbit. Because, you know, why not? Even if you are dangling 80 metres off the ground.
It’s all about adventure, right?
Another thing was to continue travelling with the children and to take them to see the places he didn’t get a chance to.
So we’re packing adventure into life.
This year will see us embark on a dolphin and whale watching trip with Harry, Eddie and Sid. Paddy and Ollie will be heading off to Paris next month to take a trip to the top of the Eiffel Tower and a cruise down the River Seine with Mike, whilst Cait goes off to Luxembourg again during her break from work.
March will see Mike and I pack up our bus and hit the road for two months with ten of the children. We will be camping down through Croatia, Montenegro and Albania then settling in Greece for a few weeks before camping our way back up. We’re particularly looking forward to the horse-riding we have planned during our stay at an Albanian organic farm because where better to learn to ride a horse? It’s all about adventure, remember.
We’re in Italy and France later this year, Cait and I will be spending her 18th birthday in Germany or, more precisely, at her dream castle Neuschwanstein. We will also be visiting places closer to home, with glamping and camping and visiting places we’ve never been to before and doing things we’ve never done. Who knows where else we will end up or what we will do. Join us as we kick off our 2017 travels later this month with a trip to Wales.
Life is for living and we plan to make the most of it.
Adventure!
I loved this post and has made me think of what I want to do in 2017! It also sounds like you have a great year of traveling planned which will be fantastic!
I hope you don’t mind but my friend has started a blog called These Random Acts, a home, family, and lifestyle blog, focusing on setting and achieving goals as well as performing random acts of kindness.
She would love to hear your feedback and to also hear some of your own personal goals!
Thank you for stopping by! It will definitely be a better year for us, I’m sure. I’ll come by and pay a visit now and take a read.
WOW! Those are some adventurous goals!! Jimmy and your dad will be so proud. 🙂 What a way to honor a memory!
We are headed to Greece this year as well and are really looking forward to the educational planning that precedes it. At the moment I’m researching books about Greece to read before hand. Mostly all I’m finding is stuff on Ancient Greece which is awesome, but..not all there is!! Do you homeschool your kiddos?
Thank you! Yes, we do home educate which makes taking off to travel much easier! Whereabouts are you all heading and when?
Some amazing adventures planned I’m quite envious (any chance you need an extra pair of hands on your trips?). Your children are growing up with the most amazing memories and will look back at your travels with such fondness.
Ooh yes, do come along! I’m sure we wouldn’t even notice a few extra!
Adventure, thats what its all about. 2017 sounds like it will be great year for you and i wish you luck with your challenges. Climbing mountains sounds great fun. I love hiking myself, and i’ll be tackling the West Highland Way this year. 🙂 look forward to reading about your adventures.
I’m really looking forward to challenging myself and doing things I wouldn’t even have dreamed of doing 18 months ago. I look forward to following your trek too. Do you know when you’ll be doing it?
You have done so well with your weight loss. Its a great achievement. We are booked to do it in June. Hoping I can fit some training in before it. 🙂
You’re brave to be doing that abseil! Sounds as though you have a great year ahead. How beautiful that your brother encouraged adventure in everyone.
Brave or something else?! I’m quite excited about it but goodness knows how I’ll feel when I’m at the top looking down! Jimmy was certainly a real encouragement and inspiration.
Hi Tania,
OMW this couldn’t be a better post for me to read first thing on a Monday morning. I can tell there’s plenty of history behind it but I’m a first timer here, so I’ve got some catching up to do.
It’s a great piece of inspiration!
Sounds like you folks have a jam packed year ahead! Especially you, what with climbing a mountain AND abseiling!
I must admit, thinking about climbing a mountain scares me – I’m not sure s
why. But it sounds like you’re raring to go!!
I’ll definitely be hanging around to hear how you get on!
Astrid
Thanks, Astrid! We’re going to have some more challenges coming up soon so I hope you’ll stop by soon and find out what they are!
Tania,
Just signed up to your feed so I can keep up to date!
As for challenges – they’re one of the best things in life! You’ve got this!!