’16 Kids and Counting’ – The Sullivan Family One Year On

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Our two episodes of ’16 Kids and Counting’ have now been aired once again in the UK, as well as in many countries all over the world. It has been over a year since they were originally shown and almost two years since we began filming for the series. We thought it would be a good idea to give our visitors, both old and new, an update on our family during this time as there have been quite some changes since!

Of course, there are still some who feel very uncomfortable about the way we live and even make it known that they disagree. That’s okay, because living unconventionally works for us. As long as we are happy with our lives and what we can achieve by not conforming to mainstream expectations, that’s fine by us. We understand that some people might object to things that they are unfamiliar with, such as choosing to have a large family or home educating, but just because we choose to live life differently doesn’t make us wrong, it just makes us… different!

Let’s begin with the kids.

Well, twins Libby and Anna, who you saw turn a year old, are now very cheeky 2½-year-olds who love the films Frozen and Tangled, pretty dresses, hairbands and Little House on the Prairie. Their personalities are extremely different; Libby is quite dainty and ditsy, and easily embarrassed. Anna is loud, crazy and not easily embarrassed at all. Catch up on some moments from their second year here:

 

Our newest addition from the series, Isobel, is now an active, adorable 18-month-old. She simply adores her sisters and brothers, and tries very hard to keep up with the twins especially (as you can see in the video above!). A word of advice, you might not want to leave a Lemon Curd Tart on the table when she’s around. Although she was adamant she didn’t cause the fingerprints, I suspected otherwise:

 

 

Did you note the initial horror in my voice?

Earlier this year Isobel become a big sister herself. The twins broke a run of six boys in the family, and we then had three girls in a row. February saw our newest addition join the family – a boy! The caesarean, my sixth, went extremely well and without complications, and we’re okay to proceed with another pregnancy should we choose to.

Although Timothy was born at 37 weeks he had a little trouble getting his breathing going and spent the first week of his life in SCBU. We are trying to raise funds for the unit who cared for him – although fundraising is going a little slowly. See Tim’s Journey here:

 

Tim is now three-months-old and as strong as a chubby little ox. He is adored by everyone!

 

Tim at 12 weeks old
Tim at 12 weeks old

 

As for the others, well, Ben is hundreds of miles away at university, Stephanie is working two jobs; one full-time as a claims adjuster for an insurance company and a second part-time job, in an effort to save for a deposit and get out of renting. While she is working she is also studying part-time for her law degree. They aren’t the only two studying for their degrees, as I too have just completed my first year of study for my BA in Politics, Philosophy and Economics.

Caitlin is currently working through her IGCSE exams and will be receiving the results two days before her 15th birthday. She also volunteers locally and now has plans to go into journalism. The middle boys are as rambunctious as ever, filling days with camps, clubs, events – and learning, of course!

Each time the show has aired, wherever in the world it might be, we’ve been inundated with questions on home educating. While I was extremely reluctant to film the series, I am so very happy that we did as parents of so many children who had been bullied got in touch and realised that there was a viable and effective alternative. To have been able to make a difference to the happiness of one child by bringing the option of home education to them would have been enough, but to have received the feedback we have has been overwhelming. The issue of home education is still greatly misunderstood and criticised. We hope that between the series and through our site, that we can continue to dispel the myths of home education and prove that it does work. The one sadness we have had to face is that so many children are being bullied out there. It’s heartbreaking.

While Caitlin is currently finishing up her IGCSE studies online with Interhigh, we switched curriculum for the rest of the children. You can find out why we decided to change our home education curriculum here.

We also took advantage of the flexibility that home education and working for ourselves offers and went on an eight week road trip around France and Italy. The thought of travelling around with ten children, nine of whom were under the age of ten, was nerve-wracking to say the least. We needn’t have worried. Everyone loved it and the way they learnt – hands on and through seeing and experiencing different places and cultures – was far more effective than any book or video could ever have been. If you ever get to offer your children one thing it would be the experience to travel and learn. My frustration with the school system which so heavy-handedly disallows children this valuable experience is indescribable. Still, that would be another post entirely, I guess!

Finally, the self-sufficiency dream! Well, when we returned from our road trip we came home to a letter which informed us that we had lost our allotment plot only three days before. That, I suppose, is the consequence of prolonged travel during spring when everything – including the weeds – is growing fast! Still, all is not lost because we have decided that the time to realise our self-sufficiency dream has now come! As I type, work is being done to the house in preparation for selling. If you think redecorating with 10 children under 11 is stressful, you’d be right – especially when kitchens and bathrooms are being completely replaced!

So that’s about it! Thanks for taking the time to read this and I hope you’ll stay in touch! In the meantime I’ll leave you to a little (noisy) large family fun!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3 thoughts on “’16 Kids and Counting’ – The Sullivan Family One Year On

  1. Hi Tania, great to hear all your updated news and very exciting that you are moving forward into self sufficiency. Can’t imagine the decorating disruption, I only have 6 and I get resigned to living a bit longer without a fresh coat of paint. We’ve out grown our house but can’t see how to get the house into a saleable condition when its so full of children and their stuff! Hope all goes well and keep doing what you’re doing so well xx

  2. I am really pleased you did the documentary. It’s not often you see REAL homeschooling families on the TV. I am a homeschooling mum of 4 and I think our way of life is normal. I suppose to other people it may seem strange. Who made the rules of what’s normal and what’s not???? People should be less judgmental of families that do things a bit different.
    I am looking forward to seeing your family move into self sufficiency….that’s a little dream of mine :)

  3. Hi Tanya

    I watched 16 kids and counting and think you do a great job with all the kids,they seem really happy.I have 5,all under 7,and i am home educating them (for the same reasons as you ) although not in such a structured way.

    My question is,do you breastfeed your babies?Im only asking because i saw you feeding Isabel with a bottle when she was newborn and wondered if it was something that you just dont do anymore because its just easier to feed when you have such a large family.My youngest is 6 months and i had planned on feeding her til she was 2 but i am thinking of stopping,i love breastfeeding but i find it hard to fit everything else in around it.

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